There is no need to try and control the outcomes you perceive to be outside of you. Where you want to exercise your power and influence is on your own states of being, on the psychological and emotional strategies you’re using moment to moment. Focus your energy and attention on influencing and controlling what you’re thinking and feeling moment after moment. That’s where you have the most impact and it’s that impact that translates into a different quality of magnetism and attractive power. Trying to control the external will give you stress and put you in tension. Deciding and determining your thoughts and emotions, your focus and awareness, will give you power and leverage.