What you focus on is what you flow energy toward and in turn what informs how you feel. Focus on what’s great, and you will feel great. Focus on what’s wrong and you’ll feel discomfort. You feel what you focus on. This is one of the most basic observations you can make about how your moments on fold.
Let your premise be that it’s *easy* to make a change. If your framework is that “change takes time”, “change is hard work”, “change is difficult”, then you will set yourself up to fulfill those exact conditions when moving into experiencing change. The parameters and conditions you decide are true, that you declare are true, will be the parameters you encounter every step of the way. You are always in the seat of authorship.
Take stalk of the different areas of your life, of your human experience. How empowered are you in these areas? How connected do you feel to the infinite flow of positive moment-enhancing experiences? Engage with yourself frequently. Where you are running a dis-empowering pattern in any area of your life is where you need to shift your focus, shift the flow and direction of your thoughts, emotions, and expectations. As you change that flow inside yourself, you’ll change the flow of events and circumstances you encounter. As within, so without.
Create possibility in your outlook. Instead of solely focus on what is or isn’t happening, make room in your awareness for what could happen. What else can come through outside of your conditioned expectations? What surprises and positive unexpected events can show up? Stay open. Stay in the mindset of infinite positive possibilities.
Pay attention to the questions you’re asking about the situations in your life. The questions you are asking determine where you look and what fields you access. “Why me” plugs you into a different field than “how does this get better”. Notice how you are making use of the search function in your own neurology. What you access, whether you access inspiration or more problem thoughts, is decided by the questions you ask.
Let your primary love for life be about the simple fact that it brought you into existence. When you base your sense of connection and fulfillment in life on what you get or don’t get, what manifestation does or does not show up, you make yourself forget about the first magical act life ever performed for you – it brought you into being. Be thrilled that you are awake and alive another day – another day in which the sun is magma hot, the earth spins and spins, oxygen and water are in abundance and you are alive in it all to witness another day unfold. Let your foundation be awe and gratitude for the simple reason of your existence. Every other success from there will be a layer added onto your unending sense of awe and gratitude. This is the recipe for living a life you unconditionally love come what may, come any day!